SHE HOLDS HUSBAND’S HAND AS HE TAKES FINAL BREATH, THEN SON SEES SOMETHING THAT MAKES HIM GASP!







All love is special, but sometimes you hear a story of a love so incredible it just takes your breath away. Such is the story of the love shared by Raymond and Velva Breuer. The couple was together pretty much their entire lives. They grew up in the same town, went to the same one-room primary school, and graduated from the same high school.

Raymond was smitten with Velva from the start, though he had a little trouble showing her at first. At a celebration of their 77th anniversary in January, Raymond told a reporter that in fourth grade he tried to get Velma’s attention by sticking her with a poker from the fireplace of their schoolhouse. He didn’t realize it was hot and it left her with a scar that she carried for the rest of her life. Despite the rocky start, in 1940 they were finally married. “She married me to get even with me,” Raymond joked.

The Breuers happily spent the rest of their lives side-by-side, raising six children together – four boys and two girls. Over the years they also welcomed 18 grandchildren and so many great- and great-great-grandchildren that no one in the family has an accurate count of how many there are!
Though their lives may not have made newspapers or magazines, everyone who knew them was struck by the love they had for each other, their family, and for God.

“They would always hold hands and sit in the front-row pews of the church,” said Missouri State Representative Cheri Reisch, who knew the couple well. “They never left each other’s side. It was true love.”

While both of their minds stayed sharp as they entered their 90s – something their children attribute to the fact that both were avid readers – they bodies started to decline. They moved into Boone Landing Retirement Community where Raymond held weekly Bible studies and slept on a cot next to Velma’s bed so they never had to be apart. He even joked that they should be buried together.

“Dad told one of the nurses before he passed, that if they went close together, that they should just be buried together, in the same casket,” their son, Bobby Breuer, said.

Little did he know that little joke would foreshadow things to come. On August 4, as he held his bride’s hand, Raymond passed away peacefully to eternity. Just 30 hours later, Velma joined him. Raymond was 97 and Velma was 96.

As the family began to plan the funeral, they remembered what their dad had said about them being buried together. Even though he had said it as a joke, the family began to think that it would be the perfect way for them to go.

“[O]ther people heard it and we asked the funeral director,” Bobby said. “Mother was a very small woman, and Dad wasn’t that big.”At the funeral, the pair was placed side-by-side in the same coffin, their hands intertwined.

While their family is heartbroken to say goodbye, they know this is exactly how Raymond and Velma would have wanted it. They spent almost a century living and working together; how appropriate that they should spend all of the eternity together as well.

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Mesothelioma Cancer
Mesothelioma is a rare, aggressive form of cancer that develops in the lining of the lungs, abdomen, or heart. Caused by asbestos, mesothelioma has no known cure and has a very poor prognosis.

According to a 2017 report by the Centers for Disease Control, 2,400 – 2,800 people are diagnosed with mesothelioma in the United States each year. People who have worked with or been exposed to asbestos have the highest risk of developing mesothelioma. After being exposed to asbestos, mesothelioma symptoms can take 20 – 50 years to appear.

The life expectancy for mesothelioma patients is poor, as there is no cure for the disease. The stage of the disease, cell type, and location of the tumor(s) are the most important factors for a patient’s survival. Factors such as the patient’s overall health, age, and whether the cancer has spread also impact prognosis.

After receiving a mesothelioma diagnosis, there are a number of vital decisions that must be made. The Mesothelioma Cancer Alliance is dedicated to providing patients with the best resources available on current treatment, stories of survival and hope, and financial assistance.
Types of Mesothelioma
Mesothelioma is most commonly classified by the location in the body where it develops. Specifically, the cancer forms in the lining of certain organs or spaces within the body, known as the mesothelium. Mesothelioma typically develops in one of three specific areas.
Diagnosing Mesothelioma Symptoms
Mesothelioma symptoms can take 20 – 50 years to appear after the first exposure to asbestos. The signs of mesothelioma often look like those of other diseases, which can lead to misdiagnosis. When someone exhibits mesothelioma symptoms, doctors perform a variety of tests to rule out other diseases. It normally takes weeks or months for doctors to arrive at an accurate mesothelioma diagnosis.
Upon diagnosis, the doctor will categorize the disease into one of four stages. While there are several staging systems, the TNM System — which stands for tumor, lymph nodes, and metastasis — is the most commonly used.
Mesothelioma Cancer
Mesothelioma is a rare, aggressive form of cancer that develops in the lining of the lungs, abdomen, or heart. Caused by asbestos, mesothelioma has no known cure and has a very poor prognosis.

According to a 2017 report by the Centers for Disease Control, 2,400 – 2,800 people are diagnosed with mesothelioma in the United States each year. People who have worked with or been exposed to asbestos have the highest risk of developing mesothelioma. After being exposed to asbestos, mesothelioma symptoms can take 20 – 50 years to appear.

The life expectancy for mesothelioma patients is poor, as there is no cure for the disease. The stage of the disease, cell type, and location of the tumor(s) are the most important factors for a patient’s survival. Factors such as the patient’s overall health, age, and whether the cancer has spread also impact prognosis.

After receiving a mesothelioma diagnosis, there are a number of vital decisions that must be made. The Mesothelioma Cancer Alliance is dedicated to providing patients with the best resources available on current treatment, stories of survival and hope, and financial assistance.

Mesothelioma Survivorship and Life Expectancy
Prognosis
Prognosis
How a disease will progress. A prognosis can be good or bad, and may include a life expectancy estimate.
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Life Expectancy
How long a patient can expect to survive. This may change with treatment and other developments.
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Survival Rate
A statistic (percentage or ratio) indicating how many people live a certain amount of time after diagnosis.
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Types of Mesothelioma
Mesothelioma is most commonly classified by the location in the body where it develops. Specifically, the cancer forms in the lining of certain organs or spaces within the body, known as the mesothelium. Mesothelioma typically develops in one of three specific areas.

Pleural Mesothelioma
LUNGS
The most common type, pleural mesothelioma is caused by the inhalation of asbestos fibers.

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Peritoneal Mesothelioma
ABDOMEN
Inhaled or swallowed asbestos fibers can become trapped in the lining of the abdomen (the peritoneum).

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Pericardial Mesothelioma
HEART
In rare cases, asbestos fibers can get lodged in the pericardium, the lining around the heart cavity.

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Diagnosing Mesothelioma Symptoms
Mesothelioma symptoms can take 20 – 50 years to appear after the first exposure to asbestos. The signs of mesothelioma often look like those of other diseases, which can lead to misdiagnosis. When someone exhibits mesothelioma symptoms, doctors perform a variety of tests to rule out other diseases. It normally takes weeks or months for doctors to arrive at an accurate mesothelioma diagnosis.

Common Symptoms of Mesothelioma
Trouble breathing or chest pain.
Effusion (fluid buildup) in the lungs or abdomen.
Anemia (especially in women).
Nausea / vomiting.
Loss of weight.
Upon diagnosis, the doctor will categorize the disease into one of four stages. While there are several staging systems, the TNM System — which stands for tumor, lymph nodes, and metastasis — is the most commonly used.

Four Stages of Mesothelioma
STAGE
1
The mesothelioma tumor is located in only one area and has not spread to other parts of the body.

STAGE
2
A large tumor may have progressed to nearby areas and/or the lymph nodes, but has not gone on any further.

STAGE
3
Tumors have typically spread beyond the local area to several nearby locations and the lymph nodes.

STAGE
4
The tumors have spread into multiple areas and throughout the lymphatic system, invading other organs throughout the body.

Typically, Stage 1 and Stage 2 mesothelioma can be treated effectively with surgery and other forms of therapy. However, Stage 3 and Stage 4 mesothelioma are often treated palliatively.

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Treating Mesothelioma
Treatment for mesothelioma is similar to other types of cancer. The most common treatments are surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. Newer treatments are being studied as part of clinical trials and may be available for some patients who do not respond to conventional therapies.

In some cases, treatment can improve a patient’s prognosis, extending his/her life significantly. Treatment can also be used palliatively to reduce pain and discomfort caused by the symptoms of mesothelioma.

Mesothelioma Doctors
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Finding a mesothelioma doctor and creating a custom treatment plan based on your diagnosis is the most important decision you can make to improve prognosis. Browse our catalog of top mesothelioma doctors around the country.

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Mesothelioma clinics and cancer centers offer patients a way to get the most comprehensive care, using the latest technology and techniques available. Locate the best mesothelioma clinics near you.



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